Most B2B conversations get harder when you walk in holding
Most B2B conversations get harder when you walk in holding a hammer. Everything starts to look like something you need to break through.
You stop listening. You start performing. You hear hesitation as resistance.
You hear pushback as disrespect.
You hear “send me more info” as a request, when it may be a quiet exit.
That is why Jefferson Fisher’s line is worth remembering: Have something to learn, not something to prove.
It sounds simple. But it is not how most people enter a sales call or negotiation.
A proving mindset wants agreement. A learning mindset looks for information.
It asks:
Why did they react there? What are they not saying? Who else is in this decision?
What risk are they trying to avoid?
That shift matters because in B2B, the visible objection is rarely the real objection. “The budget is tight” may mean the CFO was never brought in.
“We need more time” may mean they do not trust the change. “Send me more info” may mean they do not feel safe saying no.
The deal is often lost in the information they never felt safe enough to tell you.
You cannot argue your way into that information. You have to listen your way there.
Chris Voss adds the part most people miss.
The outcome you want is based on limited information. You do not know everything. They do not know everything.
And both sides are holding something back.
So the best outcome is usually not the one you arrived trying to force. It is the one you find once the conversation becomes honest enough for the truth to show up.
That is the difference between a sharper rebuttal and a better conversation.
One tries to win the point. The other finds the information that changes the deal.
Before your next sales call or negotiation, ask yourself: How much information am I losing because I need to be right?
That question will change more deals than another polished objection handle.
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